28 August 2016

WHY MEN SHOULD NEVER GET OFFENDED WHEN WOMEN ARE AFTER THEIR MONEY AND STATUS

A successful man is one who makes more 
money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who
can find such a man.
Lana Turner
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
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A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man.
Read more at: http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/woman.html

A woman who is after a financially secure and independent man with a good and stable job is not necessary a golddigger. It might be one of the most unjust delusions. Here's why.

Since the very dawn of civilisation, so it is, that the man is the breadwinner, while the woman is the keeper of the home. With all the recent feministic tendencies, things have certainly been somewhat overturned. Today, the roles between the spouses can often be swapped and it shall be considered a completely normal thing between the two. But you will never be able to change the fact, that the woman's and the man's perception of almost all things in the world are crucially different.

In a world obsessed with beauty and success, you can hardly find a man that shall settle for a life partner that is, in commonly accepted sense, less than perfect. Men look for healthy and beautiful women and if she is, at the same time, smart and interesting to talk to, successful, self-sufficient, unobtrusive, supportive and understanding, it is a very pleasant bonus. However, men, as well as women, rarely realise that that's because instinctively they want women capable of bearing their future healthy children and raising them to be worthy members of civilised society.

But why do men always get offended by women being interested in their money and job?! So, it is absolutely alright to want a woman for her qualities, but when the woman wishes for a fulfilled, mature, financially independent man, she is immediately claimed a golddigger and practically equated with a prostitute.

Employed, successful men that do not exactly own a private jet flatter themselves, thinking that all a woman wants from them is money. If she indeed wanted only money, she could always find richer.

Just as instinctively a man seeks for a woman to combine his DNA with and give the world new beautiful humans that shall continue him, a woman is looking for a man who will always be able to provide a worthy living and education for those humans. Money is protection and freedom, and it's no secret that one of the fundamental criteria for women in settling for a partnership is the sense of security about their family's and their own future and environment.

The kind of women who are happy with regular dinners and occasional expensive shopping trips and holidays - I am not saying they do not exist - but they are pretty rare, and prosperous men never really consider those as serious candidates to start a family with. Just as mature and successful women in possession of all the qualities mentioned above, will seldom look in the direction of an unfulfilled man. More often than not success for those women equates with maturity, intelligence, power, and commitment, which is exactly what a "perfect" woman is looking for.

Any promising relationship between a man and a woman is a partnership. In a partnership, both parties are looking for benefits, which make the partnership worthwhile. Men should never get offended when women are after their money and status, firstly because it's unlikely she wants nothing else, she wants the strong man who was able to achieve something in his life beside her; secondly because she must be really serious about this particular man. They should be happy, not offended.
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